since when did it become the daily requirement for the nice guys to finish last?
sure it maybe a little ignorant but i do consider myself for the most part at least a nice guy, and in most instances i find my self finishing last, cant say all because there was the insane girl last year, obsessive and carving my name into her but hardly the point,
the thing im getting at is that its not just me and its not all the time but why..why, why, why in so many cases is it the nice guys, even girls who end up falling at the final hurdle,
i'll be corney and look at it in the relationship side, as its also the side thats got me to write this, i've been stood up today effective because im to nice a guy to go out with, mite ruin things, but i guess at least i wasnt stood up with no warning and no after thought like other times, but this has also happened to one of my best mates, where the girl just doesnt show up, i mean, why does it happen? he's a great guy, one of the best, yet it happens,
i want anyone who reads this to think back, this kinda stuff ever happened to you?
if it has or even if it hasnt, i say seize the moment, go up to the one you like/love/care about and you tell them you do, tell them to get over them selves and give you the chance you diserve to show them you can be just as good if not better than any of the others they choose,
i say it'll be worth it, even if it doesnt work out, at least you did something proactive to show that you do really care
who know, they just mite respond